CONTROL

Summary

Chapter 1

 Desire 

The root of all suffering is attachment and desire

Buddha

Buddha said that “the root of suffering is attachment and desire.” But what does attachment and desire exactly mean? It's basically what we do when we hold on to things in an effort to find happiness and comfort. We don't just cling to things that give us joy, but we also cling to something because we're afraid to let go of them as well.

  Signs that your  spouse is moving on and  happy in the rebound relationship with the painkiller.

• They see you as just another person and you're not that special.


• They ask you to return their things or they return the things that you bought them


• They don't care if you're dating someone new


• They appear to be happy with their new life outside of you


• They don't care or try to convince you they're  happy


• They unfriended you and unfollow you on social media


• They stop contacting you for whatever reason


• They told you to your face that their feelings are gone


• They move far away from you


• They date someone totally opposite from you that have no similarities to you


• When you contact them they do not rush to respond back to you or they respond not at all


• They tell you to your face you should move on

Signs your  spouse is suffering without you

• Multiple dating apps: the reason why they do this is because they have a fear of being alone


• Changing lovers: the number one killer of relationship is complacency and boredom your ex or spouse will get bored very quickly in the new relationship